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What is the protocol when your son gets engaged?

What is the protocol when your son gets engaged?

Traditionally, the groom’s parents call on the bride’s parents after their son announces the engagement. That means they either drop them a nice note or make a phone call to make plans to get together. Getting together can mean dinner or drinks at their home or out, a weekend trip to the town where they live—whatever.

Should I give an engagement gift?

The good news is, engagement gifts are not required, no matter how fancy the celebration. Nowadays, it’s common for guests to bring a gift to an engagement party, but it’s usually something small and sentimental. Don’t feel pressured to give an elaborate or expensive gift.

How do I welcome my sons fiance?

Here are 7 ways to build a relationship with your son’s girlfriend.

  1. Share a meal. Invite her over for dinner with your family.
  2. Have a game night together.
  3. Get together with her parents.
  4. Plan a special surprise together.
  5. Get involved in her activities.
  6. Offer your contact info.
  7. Pray for her.

Is it important for parents to know about engagement etiquette?

Sadly, it can become stressful when things don’t go as planned or when conflict arises between different parties. To have a stress-free engagement, it’s important that everybody knows their responsibilities. The parents of the bride and the groom should be aware of engagement etiquette so as not to step on anyone’s toes.

What should I do if my son got engaged?

Keep an eye on the future. The Garter Brides will tell you that the odds are slim that something won’t happen to ruffle the waters between your son’s engagement news and the wedding, but we urge you to remember that your son’s (and your) future happiness is at stake.

What does it mean when your baby is engaged?

The terminology for a baby engaged might sound strange. In order to determine the engagement, your doctor will make a note of how many fifths of the head he or she can feel above the edge of the pelvis. So if your baby scores a four or five, it hasn’t dropped yet.

How to announce engagement to family and friends?

It should read: “Mr. & Mrs. John Smith announce the engagement of their daughter, Lisa Smith, to Tim Brown the son of Mr. & Mrs. James Brown of Dallas,” and may also include the wedding date, if known. Alternatively, an email with a similar message can be sent to family and friends.

Sadly, it can become stressful when things don’t go as planned or when conflict arises between different parties. To have a stress-free engagement, it’s important that everybody knows their responsibilities. The parents of the bride and the groom should be aware of engagement etiquette so as not to step on anyone’s toes.

When to call your parents to congratulate you on your engagement?

If your families live several states apart, though, a congratulatory note or phone call is perfectly fine. And if your parents don’t hear from your fiancé’s family within a few weeks, they can initiate a meeting or phone call, or simply send a note.

When does the groom’s parents make the first contact?

While the tradition holds that the groom’s parents should make the first contact, these days it doesn’t particularly matter who makes the first move (although the bride’s parents may want to wait a few days, to give the parents of the groom a chance to honor custom).

Keep an eye on the future. The Garter Brides will tell you that the odds are slim that something won’t happen to ruffle the waters between your son’s engagement news and the wedding, but we urge you to remember that your son’s (and your) future happiness is at stake.

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