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Should I tell my BF I still have feelings for my ex?

Should I tell my BF I still have feelings for my ex?

If you’re in a relationship, but you still have lingering feelings for an ex, it might be best not to tell your boyfriend about these feelings. Think about your feelings and about your commitment to your current boyfriend, psychologist Marie Hartwell-Walker tells PsychCentral.

What to do when you still love your ex boyfriend?

Avoid still thinking of your ex as your boyfriend. He’s not. Try to avoid thinking of him at all. Write in your journal or talk with a friend about the relationship ending. Be sure to refer to the relationship in the past tense to emphasis that it is over and include the reasons you broke up.

When to tell your ex you still have feelings for him?

There’s always a chance. There’s no set time to wait until you get back in touch with an ex, but you need at least enough time to process the break-up. You have to feel like your relationship is actually over. Give it a few weeks at least, and a few months for longer relationships.

Do you want to get back with your ex?

Chances are your ex was the one who ended it with you, and now you want him or her back in your life. But as of right now, let’s face it: your ex doesn’t miss you. They’re happy that you two have moved on. By telling your ex that you miss them, you’re letting them know that you want to get back together.

What’s the best way to like your current boyfriend?

One of the best ways to like your current boyfriend is to get to know more about him. There are things about him that you already know and like (or else you wouldn’t be with him), but there’s probably a lot about him that you don’t know yet.

Avoid still thinking of your ex as your boyfriend. He’s not. Try to avoid thinking of him at all. Write in your journal or talk with a friend about the relationship ending. Be sure to refer to the relationship in the past tense to emphasis that it is over and include the reasons you broke up.

Do you still have feelings for Your Ex?

Generally, your feelings of love will start to fade over time, though, and you’ll meet new people and move on. In some cases, however, you may not be able to let go of those feelings. If you can’t let go of your ex, you can learn how to let him know. Wait a while.

Is it good to compare your current boyfriend to your ex?

Comparing your current boyfriend to your ex is not a good idea for several reasons. Mainly it’s a bad idea because in order to compare the two, you have to think about your ex. A lot. It’s also not a good idea because you should like your current boyfriend for who he is — not because of how he is different from (or similar to) your ex.

Do you want to be friends with your ex?

You don’t want to be friends with your ex right now. You want to be back in a romantic relationship with him or her. Even if, right now, your ex does agree to hang out with you “as friends,” all you’ll be thinking is how much you want them back. This just isn’t a good idea. 4. “I’m Lonely and Depressed, Haven’t Eaten in Days!”

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